EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP



At every point in time make out time to evaluate your relationship (it is like getting feedback from your business market.)

There is a serious need to evaluate your relationship, sadly, many have not seen this need. Evaluating your relationship will show you what is working and what is not.

It is important you take out time to evaluate your relationship. It could be once a month, once in 3months once in 6months, once a year whatever works for you.

The evaluation should first be for you and then for your partner.

Some questions that could help in evaluating are given below;

Ø How long has this relationship lasted?

Ø How well has it being running?

Ø Who is sustaining the relationship?

Ø What challenges has it faced?

Ø Has it bring beneficial to us (what impact has it made in our lives positive or negative)?

Ø Does it favour just one partner more than the other?

Ø In the relationship blue print, what has have we achieved?

Ø What couldn’t we achieve and why?

Ø What are our future problems?

Ø What future do we have and or how do we tackle our future problems?

These are some questions you might need to ask that will help better your relationship if answered sincerely without sentiments.

If after answering these questions you find a need to take a serious decision whether it saves or breaks the relationship I will advice you go ahead and make it as fast as possible.

Comments

  1. 9jafootball17 November 2017 at 06:07

    Interesting topic. People need to learn to review their relationship like they review their life regularly.

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  2. Unknown23 November 2017 at 01:26

    True talk sir. Thanks

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