RUBBER IRON GLASS



When you are in a relationship be as flexible (elastic) as rubber (elastomeric-polymer) not as hard as iron nor as brittle as glass.

Rubber has a unique flexible character. It can be stressed more than twice its original size (some even up to 200times) and returns back to normal without being strain.

Iron on its own is not as rubber though ductile making it malleable but when stressed, It cannot return to its original self rather it tends to bend towards the force.

Glass is brittle in nature when stressed it shatters. It cannot with stand much stress as iron nor as rubber.

As HARD AS IRON;

 When you are as hard as iron in your relationship, it is will be difficult for you to learn, you tend to be a rigid person who finds it difficult to adjust when the need arises. If there comes any reason that the relationship did not work out, (like heartbreak as you may like to put it) you tend to become bitter, and a stereotype person. That is why you would hear people say’ they can never ever love again’. This is because they were like iron which once bent, cannot return to its original self.

As BRITTLE AS GLASS;

When you are as glass in your relationship, you will be afraid of breakups, so mostly you will cling to the relationship whether it’s working or not. And when breakup eventually comes due to some reasons, you are shattered just like glass. It becomes difficult to move on without the relationship. Many years to come you will still be crying over the relationship. You will find it difficult to forget the person and you see the person as the only one who you can cope with or who can cope with you. This glasslike nature can make it difficult for you to even excel in other areas of life.

AS FLEXIBLE (ELASTIC) AS RUBBER;

 This is the best way to be in a relationship. When you are as rubber, you will be open to learn anything, you can cope with anyone, when the relationship happens not to work out, you will be able to move on with your life, you will be able to love again, you will be able to have a much better relationship because you have learnt some lessons, you would have no bitterness towards the person. It will be a case of oh well! it didn’t work out, life goes on.

Comments

  1. dxperts tracts8 December 2017 at 05:18

    Wow!! Very brilliant exposition. I never saw relationship frm this perceptive.

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  2. Unknown8 December 2017 at 07:35

    Thank u very much for this great woman of God, You are blessed.



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