RESERVE SOMETHING FOR YOUR SPOUSE



In many relationships, people tend to give all they have. They obviously have reasons why they do so; top of the reasons is to keep the relationship.

The habit of losing self in a relationship is not just peculiar to female but most often female.

No matter how sweet a relationship is do not give every part of you; reserve something for your future spouse.

Reserve something no matter what it is; it could be your body, your cooking skill, your house keeping skill, your romantic skill, just reserve something.

Reserve something special, something you know will make you’re your spouse feel special, something of value, it should be valuable to everyone that notices it but then it shouldn’t be for everyone.

Everyone wants to be the first to do something or get something on a general note. Every spouse will be glad to be first to get some treat from their partner. For example if you are good with cooking, and you somehow refuse to cook for any other person but for your future spouse only, he/she will definitely hold it in high esteem.

Reserve something for your marriage, if you give all your skills, treasure, time in a relationship what then is that special thing you have to offer to your future spouse? .

Some give out all of themselves because they  assume the partner they are in relationship with is the person they are definitely going to marry; but the question now is how sure are you?. Anything can happen anytime, until you are finally married to the person never be too sure.

On encouragement note; though you might be thinking : what if I have given what I would want to keep to someone already? What do I do then? Should I forget about reserving?

You can start now to hold on to it. It’s never too late to stop giving it unnecessarily. If you can stop now and start reserving it for you spouse only, it will still be valuable. A spouse will be happy to hear [ oh you are the first I am giving this my valuable treasure to] or [I have giving it carelessly but when I realized myself I figured I should keep it for you only and since then I have reserved it for you].

Most often people might not see the value of what you are keeping for your spouse, they might disregard it but you know the worth to you, do not let other peoples thinking change your mind hold on to it.

When you reserve something for your spouse it might be the best gift he/she has ever gotten might not say it but will treasure to be first in your life.

Search your heart and find that thing of value you will want to keep for your future spouse.






Comments

  1. dxperts tracts17 January 2018 at 02:17

    Wow!! I can really relate to this
    I did everything i cud to reserve alot for my husband so much so that wen we were courting, there were so many things i just didnt do until we got married
    Trust me, he values n respects me more now than ever.
    Thank you blogger

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