DOUBLE DATING



Double dating will give you sleepless/restless nights. You sure need your beauty sleep.

Double dating is something quite common in relationships this days but then it has being in existence.
Some people actually prefer to be in relationship with more than one person, most often they see it as a backup plan (things like I don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket).

I have not come to tell anyone not to double date but to point out my view. As it’s a new year, one of my resolutions is; ‘not to talk too much’ so I will be as brief as possible in pointing out my opinion.
Double dating will not only make you lose your beauty sleep like I mentioned earlier but some other things may result.

1.       When you double date, it hinders you from seeing the true character of the person you really want to be with.

2.       It most often make you a shadow of yourself as you keep trying not to be caught by any of the partners involved

3.       You will find it difficult to commit to anyone as confusion will set in on who really loves you

Still have a lot about double dating but you know I have to keep my resolution. 😉😉😉

As it’s a new year, you might want to join me in new year resolution by sticking to one relationship.😜😜😜 Yes you get the best out of relationship if you commit fully to one person but then don’t forget in every relationship be as FLEXIBLE as rubber.


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